Dating at this age can be intimidating, especially when so much emphasis is placed on what we look like. If you have bagged yourself a date with a prospective partner, you might be worried about where to go, and more importantly what to wear. First impressions aren't everything, but they certainly play a huge part in whether you will be asked for a second date. What you wear, especially for men, is an important decision to make, and it shouldn't be rushed.
In this blog post, we will share exactly what you should wear depending on where your date is, and also some fundamental tips to keep in mind when choosing your date night outfit. Check out the following suggestions:
Evening Dinner
Let's get the formalities out of the way first. An evening dinner calls for that extra bit of effort, especially if you are meeting your date at a relatively posh restaurant. Finding the balance between making an effort without trying too hard is difficult. Keep things simple and don't overcomplicate them. Get yourself some smart trousers with a classic fit, a smart quarter zip sweater or opt for an overshirt and t. Shoes can make or break the outfit, so miss out on the colourful sneakers and opt for a simple loafer or designer trainer.
Daytime Lunch
Daytime lunch gives you that extra bit of leniency. Meaning, a casual look is recommended for daytime lunch. Consider the location. Is it a casual local spot, or is it a cosy pub in the mountains? Jeans would be great at lunch, paired with a ribbed T-shirt and some smart trainers. Lunch is casual, so reflect this with your outfit.
Coffee Shop Date
Coffee and a catch-up? These types of first dates are the ultimate laid-back first date, almost a way to gauge a vibe before you commit to an intimate meal. Meaning, you need to play it cool when dressing for a coffee shop lunch. Dress nice, but not too nice. Wear what you would wear to meet up with a respectable family member for a coffee, except that might be your future life partner. Again, jeans are a good option. A classy heavyweight hoodie gives off the laid-back vibe, whilst also showing your attention to detail and quality. High-top Converse or any trainer will show your commitment to comfort and style.
Fun Activities
Activity dates can go in any direction. Bowling with cocktails? Rock Climbing? Go Karting? The possibilities are endless, which also means you need to be dressed appropriately. Messy, active dates call for a luxury streetwear fit. That means a higher-end tracksuit and trainers so you can move freely without feeling uncomfortable. Jeans will not be your friend here, so stick with movable, breathable clothing that still looks flattering. Two-piece shorts and boxy t-shirts are always a good option during the summer months.
Must Do’s
Here are some of our final must-know tips to consider when choosing what to wear:
Pockets for safety
Depending on where your first date is, it is unlikely you will be able to bring a backpack. In this case, it is important to wear an outfit that features pockets to fit your essentials such as your wallet and phone. Such a simple, yet forgotten aspect that many men forget. The last thing you need is to lose your wallet mid-date!
Good Quality Classics
Forget about having branded, designer clothing. Good quality classic pieces will make you look much more attractive and high-value than a bold printed t-shirt will. Find brands that produce great quality clothing without the designer price tag, and bag yourself a few wardrobe staples.
What To Avoid
Mistakes can happen, so here are the crucial things to avoid when choosing your first date outfit:
Graphic T-Shirts
You heard that right. Graphic t-shirts are not welcomed on
first dates, and this will be a shot to many of you. While wearing your
favourite band on a shirt might showcase your likes and interests, your date
would prefer to hear you talk about it as opposed to looking at your clothing.
So, keep things modal and classic instead. Imagine your date hates the band you
love, and the date will instantly be tainted!
Dirty Shoes
Last and certainly not least, clean your shoes! You will be
surprised at how many people are turned off from their date simply because the
person did not bother to wipe the mud off their shoes. basic, yet essential.
Make sure that your shoes are clean!
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